Whether you’re moving into halls or a rented space with friends, there are some unsaid rules that should be followed. Understanding cultural etiquette in shared living arrangements is the key to getting along well with your flatmates and having a good time living together. Here’s what you need to know:
Communication
This may sound basic and repetitive, but communication truly is at the heart of being able to live together peacefully. Common issues like cleaning up or taking the bins out can be completely avoided with clear communication. Proper communication is also the best tool to get closer to your flatmates and make the best out of your experience living together!
Mindful
While it is important to be comfortable in your space, it is also important to remember that you are still sharing this space with others. Be mindful of the noise you make and your behaviour in common spaces. If you are ever hosting, it is important to ask your flatmates first and also make sure you are considerate of noise and cleanliness after.
Finances
This goes especially for those living outside of university halls. Make sure you establish a system to help deal with shared payments, like bills, cleaning supplies, or shared items in the kitchen. If you owe someone money, make sure you send it to them ASAP to avoid any sort of conflict that can come with forgetting to pay them back.
Cleaning
Maintaining cleanliness in a flat of multiple people can be difficult if not done properly. Creating a cleaning rota that includes things like cleaning the sink, brushing the floors, wiping down counters and cleaning the hob can make a big difference. Switch out these chores weekly so that nobody is sick of doing the same thing. It is also important to clean up after yourself. Picking hair out of the drain, washing down the shower, cleaning up any crumbs you have left are all small steps you can take to maintain the space as well as prevent any sort of arguments with your flatmates.
Accommodate
People living in your flat may come from places or have habits that are completely unfamiliar to you. They may have practices or ways of nature that seem unusual, but it is important to be accommodating to them. Ask questions about different things everyone eats or different habits everyone has – it’s a beautiful way to learn about different cultures and live together peacefully!
It makes for a great conversation starter and can also foster a more comfortable and friendly environment, making people look forward to coming home and creating a shared sense of responsibility to look after the space.
Summed up
Respecting boundaries, maintaining cleanliness, and being considerate are key to having a good time in your shared accommodation. If you still haven’t found your perfect accommodation, check out the AFS website for your perfect fit!
